the dope cactus

I had hoped to do something really special for you this year but as we both know life comes at you fast sometimes. But I figured me writing a letter to you is a great alternative.

It’s crazy that it’s almost been 6 years since mom passed away. I’m thankful that we are both in different places in our lives right now. It wasn’t looking so promising then. We’ve both managed to get through 1,973 days without her if my calculations are right. That’s a lot of days!

I think we probably both saw our lives being very different at this point but I’m thankful that you’ve been here every time it seems like I have to start all over. I do realize each and every day how truly blessed I am/was to have the two of you as parents. Even if some days I don’t show it or express it. I’ll do better.

I used to always say that mom was my here but you are too. Nobody gives us a blueprint to how to do life. I realize that I get easily frustrated with folks but we’re all human and we’re all trying to figure out what it is we’re supposed to be doing in this world.

My hope is that this letter brings a smile to your face today. At least your birthday is on the Friday of a 3-day weekend so you can turn up, just kidding. Enjoy your day. Your 65th year here on Earth. That’s an accomplishment in itself. You have a lot to be proud of. I’m proud of you too.

Love You,

Brit